Dating website. Our advice to get you started

Online dating sites are now  essential part of modern lifestyle for anyone looking for a casual encounters partner or true love. But both before registering on one of these sites and at the time of the first "offline" meeting, it is better to follow our advice so as not to be disillusioned, disappointed or even attempted a scam.

Find the site that's right for you

Age. Some dating sites tend to be frequented by people in their forties and beyond. Tinder is popular with younger people.
The community. There are specialized sites that are taking into account users sexual orientation, religion, ethnicity, sports, pet ownership, culinary tastes, etc.
The harassment. Adopt a guy and Bumble put women in charge, to limit the risk of harassment as soon as the profile is active. Meaning, as long as a woman has not taken the first step, it is impossible for a man to send her a message. 
The profile.The Happn and Tinder applications work on the basis of very basic profiles: it's the speed meeting that counts. Unlike, for example, eDarling and Elite Rencontre, who establish a psychological profile, based on a long questionnaire, to match the profiles of Internet users as much as possible. Between these two models, many sites operate on the basis of profiles to be filled out at your convenience. 

Study formulas and prices

Several sites, including Adopt a Mech, Gleeden, OKCupid, Bumble, etc., have chosen a free service for women. Badoo, Tinder and Je Contacte are free for men and women. Apart from these cases, the optimal use of the sites supposes taking out a subscription (from 20 to 35 €/month depending on the case). Before paying, study the plans and find out about the conditions for termination and reimbursement. Some sites immediately charge a year of use without clearly announcing the options, and without the possibility of reimbursement. Usually the money return period of 14 days is applied. 

Avoid lying on your profile 

If your intentions are serious, it is not an option! Putting one, or better, several photos of you in various contexts is essential.

Stay safe 

Don't give out your e-mail address or mobile phone number too quickly, do not expose yourself to scammers - receiving of inappropriate photos or to harassments.

Beware of scam attempts 

Never respond favorably to a request for money. Also beware of prostitution, which is mainly aimed at men. 

Keep an exit door for the first date

For the first meeting, if you don't feel comfortable, set the date in a public place. Tell someone you know about it. 

Avoid addiction

To avoid finding yourself permanently glued to the site or application, set yourself strict rules: for example, check your messages twice a day, like once in the evening, or even… once a week!

Also look elsewhere

Dating sites aren't the only way to find people who have the same tastes and aspirations as you. Regular social media we are using every day are also a good way to establish new relationships or one time hookups.

Divorce advice for men – 8 ways to overcome the “Penalty of Divorced Men”

Like it or not, a divorce is a battle for almost every man who faces it. There are cultural issues at play here, including man’s own beliefs.

Here are 8 tips and tricks for men that will help you get over the divorce.

-Know your results. It is important that you know why you want the divorce.

It may have been a time of love, but now she is out of herself and you must take the same approach. This does not mean shouting matches. Stay calm, much of divorce is to keep your head together so that you could make reasonable choices and decisions.

-Stay away from the trial. 

I know a couple who spent thousands of dollars to fight over who will get the dog. You may love your dog, but you really do not want to fight about it. The only ones who win are the lawyers.

-Manage your own case. 

You can have a lawyer but you should to manage your case yourself. Your lawyer can be a good one, but you are the person most interested in your divorce. Do not try to outsource it, but to understand the process. If you and your wife are not communicating to each other and are not friendly any more to each other, consider a possibility of some mediator’s or counselor’s assistance. If you decide to do so,it will help you to understand the divorce process even deeper (I mean that you would have the opportunity see the process from your wife’s prospective). Know that women file for divorce at twice the rate as men.

-Keep positive. 

More than one divorce has been lost because a man has become depressed. Do whatever it takes to get you out of that. See the future as you want it to be after the divorce and to keep this vision in mind. If you are strong enough this will not only keep you positive, but it will also attract this result.

Best remedy for the man in the middle of a divorce hassle is to date new women (the more the better), meet old friends and do things you did not have time for lately or you wife did not let you.

There is life after death, as well as there is life after marriage  – Hebrew saying, my free translation

Infidelity and extramarital why women cheat on their husbands

Infidelity, adultery, illicit encounters and extramarital the 21st century, it is the end of the shot, men cheat more than women. Can we say that there is finally equality between the sexes, at least regarding the sexual sphere? Infidelity, which is still considered a totally masculine behavior is part of the lives of women. Whether right or wrong, evolution is noteworthy that the number of women who cheat on their husband continues to grow and grow, and they now speak on the subject. Female psychology is different from the male psychology, it would be interesting to discover the reasons why women cheat or are sometimes trying to meet a new fling. Will the weaker sex mistaken for love? Or, on the contrary, women also deceive for sensual thrills? The weather changes and women adapt. Other problems are also wondering: should confess or not? Should we stay a couple after having a lover? Women, unlike men, prefer to confess to free the weight of adultery. But is this always true? The nature of women is complex and the changes they have experienced in recent decades are radical!
Adultery or extramarital feminine
This is a shocking revelation, while we have always thought that women who cheat on their husbands do so only when they are in love. Instead, they seem to appreciate above all to feel desired or they just enjoy being laid. Women looking for a lover primarily to reassure their seductive ability, especially after several years of marriage or couple. They want to prove they can still please and seduce whatever their status (married for over 10 years, mother of two children, housewife ...). So women they deceive men more today than before? It should be noted that they are now more free to declare their preferences and trends, they could not confess before. But the fact that they did not express their desires to have a secret garden, does not mean they did not deceive their husbands.
Occasional infidelity or second long love story?
Most women interviewed on this issue, contrary to what people think men in particular, declares prefer casual relationships. Women also want small adventures for one day only for one night, to feel beautiful, seductive feel alive while their husbands do not make them vibrate. Note that if a woman feels more valued by another man by her own husband in a period of his life, that does not mean the end of marriage, something may not work but is still serviceable. The ability to feel beautiful and sensual eyes of someone else for women help to better understand the life of a couple, often monotonous and boring over time.
However, there are women who are looking for an extramarital affair longer, then this can mean that the marriage comes to an end, and they need to escape, they need a hookup because of loneliness. A woman, as a man, not looking for a story that lasts if her marriage is satisfactory.
I must admit adultery or secrecy?
A survey also found that most women prefer not to admit it. 82% against only 18% who decide to reveal it. Women who take their secrets well hidden desire to 47% not to ruin the trust of their partners, but the majority, 53%, said that, with regard only an occasional infidelity, it was not necessary to reveal. Women who decide to confess do: 42% of cases to feel better, 25% because they are not able to keep a secret. There is also 33% of respondents who reported confess to end their relationship with their husband,  fuck buddy or boyfriend. In this case, the betrayal is used as an excuse, while they lack the courage.