How to Approach Girls on Instagram: the Basics

If until recently Facebook was the undisputed king of social networks, today we can say that the attention of young people is massively shifting to Instagram. Instagram, with nearly 10 million new active users every month, is the perfect place to meet girls and get phone numbers that can turn into dates. 😉

Have you ever wondered why girls are so much more "naked" on Instagram than on Facebook? Because on Instagram they DON'T have the social pressure that they feel on Facebook (with close friends and registered relatives). All this involves an exponential increase in flirting and acquaintances, because the girls are much more "free" and "natural".

How does Instagram work? Instagram revolves around images:

Photos of places;

Food photos;

Photos of people.

There is no bulletin board where you can write "states" but there are photos to share. After taking a nice photo, you can share it on your profile by applying the famous hashtag (#). Hashtags are of vital importance because they make your photo "popular" and traceable by anyone in the world who searches for the hashtag you entered.

Example

Post a picture of yourself while you are in theater as an actor. Apply some hashtags directly related to the theme of the photo: #review #actor #theater #passion #onstage and so on.

Now all the people who search directly for the hashtag of their interest will be able to easily find your photo (and your profile). Cool isn't it? But now let's go into detail, how to meet girls on Instagram?

Here are 5 easy steps that we suggest doing:

How to meet girls on Instagram: naked and half-naked girls

1. Post beautiful photos

It seems obvious, but posting photographs that are striking is really very important. Remember that Instagram is the social network of photos: it is unreal to make acquaintance with any girl without posting at least a dozen shots, which would describe who you are. I'm talking about shots of your person but also related to travel, passions, nature and so on. In my personal profile I have about 20 photos showing the following:

My person (those photos should show you how handsome you are)));

Photos of trips made (I have a photo of Times Square in New York);

Photos of some of my passions (including theater);

Photos in the company of girls.

By posting photos that are beautiful, sharp and where you look good, you will gain popularity and followers, ergo credibility and social value in the eyes of the girl.

2. Strategy and first approach

My second tip on dating girls on Instagram is about strategy and first approach. Many men are too straightforward from the start, their strategy is: I write to all, sooner or later someone will listen to me. Proceeding "randomly" is never a good idea.

Remember that the more followers the girl has, the more selective and difficult she will be. Therefore, an approach strategy is needed. What you need to do is:

Find your target;

Start posting a couple of photos similar to her (maybe she's posting photos of food, TV series, etc.);

Like a photo of her, where she is NOT pictured (for example, like a nature photo she shared);

Wait at least 1 hour (so as to give her time to possibly put a "like" on one of your photos);

Write her a private message.

3. Opening message

The previous tip (number two) is important to keep a low profile and not make you feel like the usual horny guy who wants to get into her panties. The message, indeed, the opening messages that I feel like giving you on how to meet girls on Instagram are:

Message on the photo of her breakfast (or other meals): “Just curious: do you eat breakfast or just take a photo of it? I'd hate to eat it! hahaha ”.

Message on the photo of a trip she took: "How much envy I am feeling seeing your photo in Central Park!".

and so on.

How To Meet Girls On Instagram: Opening Message

4. Let the girls find you

That's right, you read that right! Girls find you and write first. Like? It all comes down to point one. Once you post interesting photographs, with beautiful colors and great shots, you will attract more and more people, so the most curious will be inclined to write to you.

It happened to me many times, in photos in which I was intent on acting. What you need to do is take interesting photographs but, above all, use hashtags wisely.

Hashtags are the real engine of your photos. If you enter little known hashtags you will not get results. 

Meet Girls Online (For Hookups, Dating & Long Term Relationships)

Modern dating world is easy to be successful in dating. With so many sites, apps, and social media networks, it's easier than ever to meet girls online - whether you're looking for a  casual date, a relationship, or even a LTR or a future wedding.

Here are the 4 best ways to do it:

Some experts claim that now (2021), more than 57 million people use online dating sites. Whether you are single or not single, you are missing out on the easiest, fastest way to meet not only single girls, but married and attached women as well. 

We've tested many of dating sites, so we know which ones are worth your time. Our favorites are Adultfriendfinder, POF, Tinder, OkCupid, Zoosk, eHarmony and BeNaughty.

Dating apps have become extremely popular because they are fun and easy - not to mention the fact that you can date anyone from anywhere. We are big fans of this:

Tinder: The dating app if you want to date someone.

Hinge: For meeting like-minded people through friends of friends on Facebook.

Bumble: Empowers women by only allowing them to make first contact.

There are even some based on religion - JDate for Jewish people, ChristianMingle for Christians, etc. As you can see, there really is something for everyone online.

Meetings bring together groups of people based on their mutual interests, and there are many different groups based on a number of different activities: cooking, hiking, painting, music, bowling, etc. Choose the activity you enjoy and you will meet like-minded people.

Meetup.com is a great place to find people online and attend fun events with them in person.

Sign up for Meetup.com, search for events in your area, and attend as many as possible. The key is to go. Not only will you be able to interact with different types of people, but you will also be able to broaden your horizons, learn a new skill, or find a new hobby.

Facebook is probably the best social media site for meeting women online because the ice is easy to break. All you have to do is read a girl's posts and comment below. As soon as she answers, you can start talking on Facebook Messenger. And because you're the friend of a friend, she can feel safe around you from the start.

Instagram is also a choice, but it's a more laid back environment. You often have the opportunity to see girls partying, on vacation, or just hanging out with friends. Leave a comment on a photo or something she's posted and try to back and forth a bit back and forth. Once she's comfortable with you, suggest her to switch to private messaging and even texting.

Dating girls online doesn't have to be difficult or intimidating. Now that you've been told where to find them, you just need to start doing it. Your next date, next friend, or your next relationship might be right around the corner.