Online dating sites are now essential part of modern lifestyle for anyone looking for a casual encounters partner or true love. But both before registering on one of these sites and at the time of the first "offline" meeting, it is better to follow our advice so as not to be disillusioned, disappointed or even attempted a scam.
Find the site that's right for you
Age. Some dating sites tend to be frequented by people in their forties and beyond. Tinder is popular with younger people.
The community. There are specialized sites that are taking into account users sexual orientation, religion, ethnicity, sports, pet ownership, culinary tastes, etc.
The harassment. Adopt a guy and Bumble put women in charge, to limit the risk of harassment as soon as the profile is active. Meaning, as long as a woman has not taken the first step, it is impossible for a man to send her a message.
The profile.The Happn and Tinder applications work on the basis of very basic profiles: it's the speed meeting that counts. Unlike, for example, eDarling and Elite Rencontre, who establish a psychological profile, based on a long questionnaire, to match the profiles of Internet users as much as possible. Between these two models, many sites operate on the basis of profiles to be filled out at your convenience.
Study formulas and prices
Several sites, including Adopt a Mech, Gleeden, OKCupid, Bumble, etc., have chosen a free service for women. Badoo, Tinder and Je Contacte are free for men and women. Apart from these cases, the optimal use of the sites supposes taking out a subscription (from 20 to 35 €/month depending on the case). Before paying, study the plans and find out about the conditions for termination and reimbursement. Some sites immediately charge a year of use without clearly announcing the options, and without the possibility of reimbursement. Usually the money return period of 14 days is applied.
Avoid lying on your profile
If your intentions are serious, it is not an option! Putting one, or better, several photos of you in various contexts is essential.
Stay safe
Don't give out your e-mail address or mobile phone number too quickly, do not expose yourself to scammers - receiving of inappropriate photos or to harassments.
Beware of scam attempts
Never respond favorably to a request for money. Also beware of prostitution, which is mainly aimed at men.
Keep an exit door for the first date
For the first meeting, if you don't feel comfortable, set the date in a public place. Tell someone you know about it.
Avoid addiction
To avoid finding yourself permanently glued to the site or application, set yourself strict rules: for example, check your messages twice a day, like once in the evening, or even… once a week!
Also look elsewhere
Dating sites aren't the only way to find people who have the same tastes and aspirations as you. Regular social media we are using every day are also a good way to establish new relationships or one time hookups.
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