Dating married women - is it a good idea?

By some estimates, up to 15% of married women have an affair at some point during their marriage. This equates to approximately 4.5 million women in the United States alone. This means that there is a real possibility that you will have a chance to meet married women at one time or another. Here are some things to think about before you decide whether or not to do so.

One of the things that men seem to like married women about dating, it is the physical passion that is often present. Maybe the woman is not satisfied, and now has turned to you to fill her needs. This can be great for a few nights of passionate physical intercourse, but there will be no real emotional attachment. Some guys like the idea of the whole romance, no feelings, no strings attached, but when the chemistry is involved, it makes sex better but could lead to some complications.

“We are getting a divorce.” I have a friend who dated a married woman for over ten years now, and she is always saying she and her husband are about to get a divorce. But the truth is that if you have divorced once – you know all the pros and cons of a marriage and many men choose to meet their mistresses, married to another men, but not actually marry them. Mostly they (we) need sex, not family.

This is not to scare you, but you should know that many murders are the result of “love triangles”. These crimes of passion occur quickly, often without warning. What happens is that you think things are going well, that her husband knows nothing, but then the woman admits she has an affair, or the husband finds another way. In fact, they should be angry against the person who has harmed, but the anger and jealousy can quickly bubble over and get out of control. Now, this is not to suggest that the dating of married women will make you a victim of a murder, but be aware that this is a risk, regardless of distance.

There is another thing to consider before meeting with married women, and that is your motivation. What attracts you in married women? Is it a sense of control, or lack of control? Do you feel better than her husband in some way? Is it anger? Is it the excitement? Whatever your motivation, you ask yourself  if you feel the same way if you date a single woman. If not, then you may need counseling to see if there are deeper issues.

Whether or not you decide to start dating married women – it  is ultimately up to you. You must consider many different things. It is better to be informed before deciding, and the above points should help you make a better decision.